Now, what would you do?
Have you thought about this question? I’m sure you have, and many others have as well. Most people would say they want to buy a new car, or their dream home, a tropical vacation, pay off their bills, maybe even donate to charity or never work again.
I’ve never wanted to win the lottery.
I’ve never really cared much for money. Sounds weird, I know, but let me explain.
I never had much growing up. Money broke my family apart. My Mom and Dad divorced over money. I had 3 jobs in college to get money to pay for my classes and housing. I moved out to California with $500 and no car. But I knew I would be ok. I’d find a job, I’d make it.
I never worried about money…even though I never seemed to have enough. So, honestly, I should have really wanted to win the lottery…right??
Nope. Not really. I had goals. I loved the challenge. I made $18,000 my first year living in Los Angeles. $18,000. I lived with 4 girls, shared a bedroom, walked to work, used TONS of coupons for food…I made it work.
I would always make it work. I never worried because I knew with hard work and determination….anything can be accomplished.
And my whole world changed. My life has changed. I have changed. And I will forever be changed because of this disease.
You see because, to me, every woman who is able to give birth to her child has won the lottery in my mind.
Yes, if you are a Mom, YOU have won the lottery!
Sure, it’s not millions of dollars….but guess what folks, millions of dollars cannot buy what you have.
Have you ever thought of that?
Because, no matter how much money I save or spend, no matter how many treatments I go through, no matter how much research I do, no matter what Dr/RE/Scientist I meet with, no matter how many times I actually WIN the lottery…even if I won millions of dollars, if it’s not in God’s plan for me to have a child. I won’t.
In my heart, I don’t believe that, but it just got me thinking.
So many people say if they had more money things would be different, life would be better.
Sure, for some people, some things might be different, but would your LIFE be better?
If you had a choice to win $10,000,000 or be able to get pregnant and deliver a healthy baby, which would you choose?
Think about it……
Did you choose?
Because, I don’t even get a choice.
Think about that, if you HAD to choose…what would it be?
Sure some would say 10 million dollars and , “just adopt”, get a surrogate, use donor eggs, etc.
But for those of you that are able to get pregnant and actually have your own biological child, would you trade your child for $10,000,000?
Seriously, would you?
Now, take away $10,000,000 and replace it with $80,000 of debt trying to have a baby and still not being able to have a child.
That’s my life. No choice. Thousands of dollars in debt, no baby, no lottery win for me.
I don’t think most people get that. They don’t understand how lucky they are to be able to have a child.
Either way….if you have a child, you have won the lottery, my friend.
Those of us battling infertility…..heartbreaking, soul-consuming infertility.
We don’t get that.
So, the next time you complain about being pregnant or complain about your child, or complain about anything really….just stop……
And remember, you’ve won the lottery. Life is good.